How do you cope with false love???
False love is when you're in love or you really like someone, but you deny it.
It can be lying to a friend if they tease you about someone you like.
It could be trying to forget and deny your feelings if the person doesn't like you back.
Or it could be lying to yourself and saying that you're not in love to hide yourself from possible disaster or tragedy; or hiding yourself from possibility.
I understand lying to a friend if you want to keep your feelings a secret.
Sometimes you don’t know if what you're feeling is true.
In this case, the best thing you can do is get another opinion.
Even if you are embarrassed or nervous to share your feelings with anyone, saying it out loud can help you to gain confidence.
It can also make it easier to know if the person likes you back.
By telling someone else, you can gain a second opinion and perspective. They can let you know if what you're feeling is real and mutual.
Even if you are nervous, sharing your feelings can take a weight off of your shoulders and make you feel a whole lot better.
Lying to someone you like in case they don’t like you back is an extremely common false love.
Don’t worry if you've done this, there are millions of people who have done the same thing (myself included).
It is obvious that if you like someone, you want them to like you too.
But sometimes they don’t.
That’s life.
Sometimes love wins and sometimes love looses.
That’s just what happens.
But…
You never know if the person you like is doing the same thing as you by lying just in case the feelings aren't mutual.
You'll never no unless you try!!!
I know that it can be absolutely horrific if you find out that they don’t like you.
I know that it can be absolutely amazing if you find out they do like you.
But there is no use hiding your feelings in a pit of false love.
Another type of false love is when you lie to yourself.
This is the most tragic.
Never convince yourself that your feelings aren't real.
Never convince yourself that you're not good enough.
I've been down that path and I know it's not worth it.
I am down that path and I know it's wrong.
But once you tell yourself to forget your feelings.
Once you tell yourself that you are nothing.
It's hard to come back.
It's hard to get better.
And sometimes it's impossible.
But sometimes it is possible.
You'll never know if you don’t tell the person.
You'll never unlock the true meaning or love and relationships until you sacrifice your pride and dignity for someone.
You'll never know.
You might think that you're not good enough for the person.
For yourself.
For anyone.
But those feelings aren't good enough.
Don’t lie to yourself saying that you don’t love them.
Don’t lie to yourself saying that you don’t love you.
Love…
Share…
Repeat…
Don’t hide amongst the false love…
Make it true.
Always xxo
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